Let me stop right now and get you to examine your parenting. If I watched the last six weeks of your parenting, how you evaluate your children and seek to work change in them, what would I conclude is the primary tool that you’re relying on? Don’t answer quickly. Scan what you’ve done with your children over the last several weeks. Could it be that you are making the same mistake the parents in my stories are making? Could it be that your primary tool of change doesn’t have the power to do what you’re